Book review: You can take the girl out of New York City but she will never stop loving it

"Girl to Country - a memoir" by Amy Rigby.

"Girl to Country - a memoir" by Amy Rigby.

In her first memoir “Girl to City,” the singer and songwriter Amy Rigby looked back at her journey from her hometown of Pittsburgh to New York City at the height of the punk music explosion of the late 1970’s. She performed with a number of bands, the first one was the “no wave” group “Stare Kits” in 1979, she was their drummer.

Rigby described her development as a songwriter with several groups and how she eventually began touring and recording as a solo artist. She wrote about the making of her 1996 debut solo album “Diary of a Mod Housewife,” a deeply autobiographical collection of songs that drew critical raves.

She felt she was on her way to becoming a successful musician. But life is never that easy, or simple. That album might have been the darling of critics but it didn’t sell in the numbers her record label expected. Meanwhile her marriage to another musician had fallen apart. Rigby and their young daughter Hazel were trying to survive.

She never gave up on her dreams though, soldiering on with her musical career. In her second memoir, “Girl to Country,” we experience her next phase as she decided to move to Nashville, that musical mecca, to pursue a career as a songwriter with hopes of writing songs that might attract the attention of some big names in country music.

We observe Rigby hanging out with her musical idols in Nashville. She learns about the songwriting business while collaborating with other songwriters. She sees some are very successful, living comfortable lives. She wants that, too.

We share her moments of exultation and exhaustion. We tag along on her frequent concert tours. She was an opening act for a number of better known musicians like Warren Zevon. She toured with bands and performed solo, traveling all over. It could be a hard life.

Her motor vehicles were often failing. If the band needed to fly somewhere, she had to buy their plane tickets. It was a struggle. Her ex-husband was a drummer in Steve Earle’s band and somehow between all the separate touring they were doing they still managed to take good care of their daughter, Hazel.

Her desire to find another romantic partner powers this memoir. She gets into a relationship with a rich fan in Alabama. We know from the start that he is bad news but he keeps lavishing her with expensive gifts. After all those years of driving vehicles that were falling apart suddenly she has a new BMW, a gift from her creepy boyfriend.

Thank heaven she then found the right guy after all, a legendary English musician known as Wreckless Eric. As this memoir ends they seem to be living happily ever after. She has a new album, “Hang in There with Me,” she is working on her third memoir, and still doing what she loves with a concert tour next year in Portugal.

For an inside close up look at the music biz this is the book.

Vick Mickunas of Yellow Springs interviews authors 7 a.m. every Saturday and 10:30 a.m. Sundays on WYSO-FM (91.3). For more information, visit wyso.org/programs/book-nook. Contact him at vick@vickmickunas.com.

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