But the harassment wasn't limited to text messages, police said.
In April, the man called Paradise Valley police "stating that he was out of the country ... and observed Ades in his home" while monitoring his home surveillance video, the department said in a press release Wednesday.
"When officers arrived, they found Ades in the residence taking a bath," the release said. She was arrested and charged with trespassing.
Less than a month later, Ades was "acting irrationally" outside the man's office, the release said. Scottsdale police said that when they arrived, she said she was the man's wife and they removed her from the property.
After her arrest, Ades told KPHO that she loves the man and called him her "soulmate."
"I thought we would just do what everybody else did and we would get married and everything would be fine," she said.
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