Heading back to school can be a stress trigger that leads to illegal substance use, according to the Drug Free Action Alliance “Know!” newsletter.
Every change in grade level, coach, friend or teacher may also contribute to stress, which can lead to experimentation with alcohol, tobacco and other drugs, said Michelle Morse, communications director for Drug-Free Action Alliance.
Those most at risk are students who transition to new school buildings in middle school and high school, she said.
“We see that statistically speaking, the older a child gets the more exposure there is to alcohol and drugs,” she said.
“Get to know your children’s friends and get to know your children’s friends’ parents. They don’t necessarily have your same values.”
Parents need to be engaged and involved, having conversations about substance use from a young age.
“Before it becomes an issue, you’re already in the picture and already engaged,” she said. “Statistically, we’re seeing a lot of it starting at the middle school level. That’s where a lot of the experimenting begins.”
Also, she said, they should remain educated on the topic and can sign up to receive a free newsletter at helpthemknow.org.
Tom Kelechi, president/CEO of Butler County Alcohol and Chemical Abuse Council, said there are three pieces of advice he gives parents: be a good role model, provide rules and structure and communicate.
“Actions speak louder than words,” he said. “You can talk to your kids until you are blue in the face. If you set a bad example, they are likely to follow.”
Also, he said, children surveyed overwhelmingly have said that parents with lax rules, who try to be friends with their children, come across as uncaring and weak.
Parents must not shy away from tough conversations, he said.
“Children want to know what their parents think,” he said. “They value that advice.”
Contact this reporter at (513) 755-5067 or lhilty@coxohio.com.
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